The level of violence reported in relationships these days is sure making some folks think twice.
But I do not think this is the right way. It is only a fool you will CONSISTENTLY make angry and will be expecting not to react one day. The wise thing is to explore ways to build sincere love, so whenever you or your partner makes a mistake, the other person can let go in love.
Strive to build mutual love and mutual respect, you will enjoy your relationship/marriage.